How to Accept “No” Graciously – In Other Words, How to Overcome the Fear of Rejection

Yesterday, I received notification that two people had unsubscribed from the mailing list for the Lotus Blossoming Telesummit.  My initial reaction was a visceral twinge of fear and panic.

Then, I got a grip on myself and put it out of my mind, but my little voice kept saying that this is something that I need to look at. My solution was to follow up with Marielle Smith, one of the speakers from the Lotus Blossoming Telesummit who had walked me through a powerful technique called Psych-K® to reprogram my beliefs about money.

However last night, during my active channellings of my Dragon Spirit, it became clear that rather than put off facing this issue until later, I really needed to look at it right away.  And since I have my uber-wise inner voice to address the issue, I asked and here was the answer on how to accept “no” graciously.  Italics represent my Dragon Spirit voice.

  • Focus on the “yes”.  Revel in the exhilaration of each yes.  I realized that I wasn’t allowing myself to fully experience the joy I felt each time someone new subscribed.
  • It’s like when you were dating.  At a time in my life when I learned to enjoy dating, I was so busy dating different people that I didn’t notice if someone called or not.  By paying attention to all of the positives, I wouldn’t notice the “negatives”.
  • Accept that there will always be people who say no.
  • The higher your vibration, the more who will say no because your reach will be that much greater, but if you add up the yeses, you will be amazed.
  • Go out and celebrate.


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